Daily Zen - Monday, December 31

And now we welcome the new year, full of things that have never been.

                ~ Rainer Maria Rilke

Weekend Zen, December 29-30

People often say that this or that person has not yet found himself. But the self is not something one finds, it is something one creates.

                  ~ Thomas Szasz

Daily Zen - Friday, December 28

At the center of your being, you have the answer;  you know who you are and you know what you want.

                          ~ Lao Tzu

Daily Zen - Thursday, December 27

There are two ways to get enough. One is to continue to accumulate more and more. The other is to desire less.

                ~ G.K. Chesterton

Daily Zen - Wednesday, December 26

Forget regret, or life is yours to miss. No other path, no other way, no day but today.

                   ~ Jonathan Larson

Daily Zen (Light Week) - Monday, December 24

We didn't talk about anything heavy or light. We were just there together. And that was enough.

               ~ Stephen Chbosky

Weekend Zen (Light Week), December 22-23

I've learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she handles these three things: a rainy day, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree lights.

                ~ Maya Angelou

Daily Zen - Friday, December 21

At times our own light goes out and is rekindled by a spark from another person. 

Each of us has cause to think with deep gratitude of those who have lighted the flame within us.

                 ~ Albert Schweitzer

Daily Zen (Light Week) -Thursday, December 20

We've all got both light and dark inside us. What matters is the part we choose to act on. That's who we really are.

                  ~ J.K. Rowling

Daily Zen (Light Week) - Wednesday, Dec 19

All the darkness in the world cannot extinguish the light of a single candle.

           ~ St. Francis of Assisi

Daily Zen (Light Week) - Tuesday, December 18

Darkness cannot drive out darkness: only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate: only love can do that. 

               ~ Martin Luther King Jr.

A kind comment from my friend Andrea Lueken, the upcoming Christmas holiday, and the bittersweet celebrations of the lives of twenty first-graders in Newtown, CT this week have all inspired me. 

Each day from now until Christmas, we'll feature quotes about light: the light we have inside us, the light that shows the way, the unbearable lightness of being.

Thanks for reading.

Daily Zen - Monday, December 17

There must be more to life than having everything.

                ~ Maurice Sendak

Weekend Zen, December 15-16

There is some good in this world, and it's worth fighting for.

                ~ J.R.R. Tolkien

Daily Zen - Friday, December 14

Today we affirm a new commitment to live out our nation's promise through civility, courage, compassion and character.

                   ~ George W. Bush

Thoughts and condolences to the community of Newtown, CT.

Daily Zen - Thursday, December 13

You give but little when you give of your possessions. It is when you give of yourself that you truly give.

 

                   ~ Kahlil Gibran

Turn It Up - Ravi Shankar and the Magic of Norwegian Wood

Indian sitar legend Ravi Shankar died today in San Diego at the age of 92. Shankar, a celebrated figure in world music for decades, was best known for influencing The Beatles.

Shankar integrated the sound of classical Indian music into western pop throughout the 1960s and 1970s. My favorite example of Shankar in pop music is The Beatles' Norwegian Wood. It's a simple folk ballad that Shankar's sitar turns into something elegant and mystical. RIP Ravi.

Daily Zen - Wednesday, December 12

Everybody has a right to like or dislike anything or anyone. From a flower to a flavor to a book or a composition - but it is very sad that in our country we actually fight over such things in an unseemly manner.

                     ~ Ravi Shankar

Daily Zen - Tuesday, December 11

Optimism with some experience behind it is much more energizing than plain old experience with a certain degree of cynicism. 

                       ~ Twyla Tharp

Daily Zen - Monday, December 10

        Life begins where fear ends.

                   ~ Osho

Weekend Zen, December 8-9

Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free. 

                     ~ Jim Morrison

Daily Zen - Friday, December 7

Let us not look back in anger, nor forward in fear, but around in awareness.
 

                     ~ James Thurber

Daily Zen - December 6 (Dave Brubeck Edition)

Jazz pianist, Dave Brubeck
(Dec 6, 1920 - Dec 5, 2012)

I'm beginning to understand myself. But it would have been great to be able to understand myself when I was 20 rather than when I was 82.

                   ~ Dave Brubeck

Safe travels Dave, and thanks for this...

Daily Zen - Wednesday, December 5

The way to get started is to quit talking and begin doing.

                  ~ Walt Disney

Daily Zen - Tuesday, December 4

If you want something you can have it, but only if you want everything that goes with it, including all the hard work and the despair, and only if you're willing to risk failure. 

                      ~ Phillip Pullman

Daily Zen - Monday, December 3

         He who grasps loses. 

                      - Tao Te Ching

Hunter Parrish's Stunning Performance of Beautiful City

Actor - Hunter Parrish

Sometimes a teen heartthrob is so much more than just a pretty face.

On my writing retreat in Arcata last month, I had no WiFi or cable TV. After long days of editing and writing, I rested my brain each night by escaping into an assortment of movies and television shows on DVD. There were several I enjoyed, but none more than the Showtime original series Weeds.

Weeds is a half-hour comedy-drama that stars Mary Louise Parker as an unlikely pot-dealing soccer mom, whose shady "business" deals and questionable parenting decisions constantly put her family at risk.

But this post is not about Weeds, or for that matter, about my time in Arcata. This post is about Jesus. Kind of.

Weeds co-stars a young actor named Hunter Parrish. In the series, the twenty-five year-old Parrish plays Silas Botwin, the oldest son of Mary Louis Parker who joins the family marijuana business.

Silas is not a character with great depth, and he's seldom given the best lines of dialogue in the show. His character is not especially bright nor does he possess any particularly interesting talents, with the notable exception of having a pot grower's green thumb. Oh, and a well-built torso that the producers wisely find ways to showcase every few episodes.

I don't mean to imply that Hunter Parrish lacks talent or that he turns in an inadequate acting performance. Weeds is well-written and Parrish makes the most of the material he's given as he brings Silas to life. But truthfully, after watching four seasons of the show, I assumed he was mostly cast as Silas because his blonde hair and buff physique were a good match for a shallow SoCal pot-growing college drop-out.

All of this is to say - I was shocked when I recently discovered through Twitter that Hunter Parrish also played the role of Jesus in the 2011 Broadway revival of Godspell. Based on his portrayal of Silas, I would not have guessed that Parrish was mature enough for Godspell or Broadway, and I certainly had no idea he could sing.

Just before I drifted off to sleep last night, as I lay in bed taking a last gander at Twitter for the day, I stumbled on a few references to Parrish's Broadway work. Those tweets ultimately linked me to a YouTube video of his performance of the song Beautiful City from Godspell.

Hunter's performance was so profoundly moving that I wept as I listened to him sing. I watched the video a second time, and I wept again.

This morning I researched how the song fits into Godspell. After Jesus (Parrish) becomes angry and turns over the tables in the temple, he walks away from his disciples. When he is later reunited with them, Jesus sings Beautiful City to try and restore hope to his followers. I watched the video clip again, and with the added context of the song's meaning, found it even more impacting.

A performance like this is a remarkable unexpected gift from the songwriter and the singer, and I for one, am grateful. I hope you like it too.

Weekend Zen, December 1-2

You can't cross the sea merely by standing and staring at the water. 

 

                 ~ Rabindranath Tagore

Daily Zen - Friday, November 30

Don't go around saying the world owes you a living. The world owes you nothing. It was here first.

                    ~ Mark Twain

Daily Zen - Thursday, November 29

You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream.

                  ~ C.S. Lewis

Daily Zen - Wednesday, November 28

Have patience with everything that remains unsolved in your heart.
...live in the question.

                ~ Rainer Maria Rilke

Daily Zen - Tuesday, November 27

Where you stand, where you are, that’s what your life is right there, regardless of how painful it is or how enjoyable it is. That’s what it is.

                     ~ Taizan Maezumi

Daily Zen - Monday, November 26

A little more persistence, a little more effort, and what seemed hopeless failure may turn to glorious success.

                    ~ Elbert Hubbard

Weekend Zen, November 24-25

Always be on the lookout for the presence of wonder.

                  ~ E.B. White

Daily Zen - Friday, November 23

Let nothing perturb you, nothing frighten you. All things pass. Patience achieves everything.

                   ~ Teresa of Ávila

Thanksgiving Zen - Thursday, November 22

We can only be said to be alive in those moments when our hearts are conscious of our treasures.

                   –Thornton Wilder

Daily Zen - Wednesday, November 21

If there is to be any peace, it will come through being, not having.

                  - Henry Miller

Gathering And Giving

Posted By: Timothy Juhl

It is just about 45 hours before we all sit down to our Thanksgiving dinners and indulge in turkey and dressing and gravy.  Lots and lots of gravy.

It is a day when we gather with family and friends, and when you sit down to that meal, make sure you remember all those you love and those who are no longer here to share in giving thanks.  This will be my second holiday season since my partner, Jeff, died and I can finally smile when I think of his peculiar bent for jellied cranberry sauce, for 20 years, he had to bring his own can to my mother's because no one in my family ever liked cranberry sauce.  It was his own little tradition.

I want to take this opportunity to thank all of my friends, both old and new, for supporting me in all my sorrows, my triumphs and my flights of fancy.  And I want to thank, Jeff McKown, for trusting me with his blog and giving me the opportunity to express my opinions, my tastes, and my humor.

And don't think this will be the last time I post something here.

Happy Thanksgiving, everyone!

Daily Zen - Tuesday, November 20

Seize the moment. Remember all those women on the 'Titanic' who waved off the dessert cart.
                          ~ Erma Bombeck

Daily Zen - Monday, November 19

When in doubt, ingest carbs.

                        ~ Rachel Cohn

Weekend Zen - November 17-18

The world is three days: As for yesterday it has vanished along with all that was in it. As for tomorrow you may never see it. As for today, it is yours, so work on it.

                         ~ Hasan Al-Basri

Daily Zen - Friday, November 16

It is bad luck to fall out of a thirteenth story window on Friday.

                         
                          ~ American Proverb

Daily Zen - Thursday, November 15

Those who contemplate the beauty of the earth find reserves of strength that will endure as long as life lasts.

                          ~ Rachel Carson

Daily Zen - Wednesday, November 14

All life is an experiment. The more experiments you make the better.

                    ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

Daily Zen - Tuesday, November 13

Heaven on Earth is a choice you must make, not a place you must find.

                          ~ Wayne Dyer

Daily Zen - Monday, November 12

By a tranquil mind I mean nothing else than a mind well ordered.

                         ~  Marcus Aurelius

Such Times

After spending the weekend with my father, sorting the accumulated ephemera of my grandparents' lives,  stacks of saved birthday cards, their 1935 high school diplomas, the marriage license, my father's birth, grandkids, retirement, my grandmother's death 20 years earlier, I was reminded that we should remain in the moment. 

And to remind myself (and you), I offer this meditation from the late, gay author Christopher Coe:

There will always be one final everything; the last word, of course, the last breath; there will be one last check you write, one last nap, one last artichoke.

There will be a last time you chop scallions, a last movie you will see, a last time you fly to Rome.  It doesn't matter how many coins you leave in the fountain.

You will make one last photograph, and be photographed one final time by somebody else; there will be one last time you will walk on a particular street, one last time you will go out from your house or come back into it.

You will have one last dream, one last orgasm, one last cigarette.  There will be one final time you will see or be seen by the man or the woman you have loved, or the people you have known, unless of course, you outlive them all, which is not likely.

You will lick one last stamp. You won't know it when you do.

Weekend Zen - November 10-11

The brightest stars emerge out of the blackest darkness.

                         ~ Shri Radhe Maa

Daily Zen - Friday, November 9

Whatever the world dishes up, we take it on -- not on our own terms, but on the world's.
                         ~ Steve Hagan

Daily Zen - Thursday, November 8

You don't think your way back to joy; you open to it.

                         ~ Donna Quesada

Daily Zen - Wednesday, November 7

It is easy to believe we are each waves and forget we are also the ocean.
                       
                         ~ Jon J. Muth

Daily Zen - Tuesday, November 6

Flow with whatever may happen, and let your mind be free: Stay centered by accepting whatever you are doing.

                         ~ Zhuangzi

Daily Zen - Monday, November 5

I don't care to belong to a club that accepts people like me as members.

 

                         ~ Groucho Marx