Happy New Year, Maybe

Every year at the end of December we naturally reflect on how our world has changed in the previous twelve months. We remember, we yearn, we celebrate, we regret. We look back on our lives --- our failures and accomplishments, significant events and milestones, the happy times and the not so great moments --- while the media feeds us a steady diet of historical retrospectives and pop culture lists to ponder (the worst, the best, and this year, especially, the dead).

By almost anyone's standards, this has been a shit year.

As the new year has drawn closer, social media has increasingly reflected the challenges 2016 foisted upon us. I can't swing a dead cat around my Twitter feed without hitting a "Hey 2016, Go Fuck Yourself" meme. Things are a bit more tame on my Facebook timeline, but the general sentiment is the same...things will get better next year. Because they have to.

But they don't.

While I don't know the larger personal context around many of the "Can 2016 Just Die Already" social media posts (after all, that's the magic of the internet - we learn a fragment of the truth without ever working to get the whole story), I am concerned that our expectation may be that somehow just making it to January will be enough to turn the tide, that simply flipping the calendar page will reset the game.

But it won't.

There is no magic at midnight on December 31st. Not this year, not ever. Robert Pirsig said, "The only Zen you find on tops of mountains is the Zen you bring there." That's how I'm choosing to think about 2017. If you want a happy new year, you better bring some happy.

I want 2017 to be a better year. I want to be less anxious and more joyful. I want my friends and family to experience more kindness and less bitterness. I want the world to be filled with more justice and less tragedy. It occurs to me that this is a simple but aggressive list of wants, and I have limited control over the outcome of most, if not all, events on this planet. That doesn't mean I'm helpless though. I determine my attitude. I decide how I present myself to others. I choose how well I listen and learn, how I communicate my message, how I adapt. I choose my own actions and reactions. I can shape the conversation.

And I will.

Weekend Zen, December 31 - January 1

The happiest moments my heart knows are those 

in which it is pouring forth its affections 

to a few esteemed characters.

~ Thomas Jefferson

Daily Zen - Friday, December 30

I am afraid. Not of life, or death,

or nothingness, but of wasting it

as if I had never been.

~ Daniel Keyes

Daily Zen - Thursday, December 29

If you are truly aware of five minutes a day, 

then you are doing pretty well. 

We are beset by both the future and the past,

and there is no reality apart from the here and now. 

~ Peter Matthiessen

Daily Zen - Wednesday, December 28

Loneliness is the human condition.

Cultivate it. The way it tunnels into you

allows your soul room to grow.

~ Janet Fitch

Daily Zen - Tuesday, December 27

If you see yourself in the correct way, you are all as much

extraordinary phenomena of nature as trees, clouds, 

the patterns in running water, the flickering of fire,

the arrangements of the stars, and the form of a galaxy.

You are all just like that, and 

there is nothing wrong with you at all. 

~ Alan Watts

Daily Zen - Monday, December 26

Beware the barrenness of a busy life. 

~ Socrates

Weekend Zen, December 24-25

Mindfulness is the capacity to shine the light 

of awareness onto what's going on here and now. 

~ Thich Nhat Hanh

Daily Zen - Friday, December 23

Let yourself be silently drawn by

the strange pull of what you really love.

It will not lead you astray.

~ Rumi

Daily Zen - Thursday, December 22

Things do not change,

we change.

~ Henry David Thoreau

Daily Zen - Wednesday, December 21

Think lightly of yourself

and deeply of the world.

~ Miyamoto Musashi

Daily Zen - Tuesday, December 20

Why are we embarrassed by silence? 

What comfort do we find in all the noise?

~ Mitch Albom

Daily Zen - Monday, December 19

A garden is always a series of losses 

set against a few triumphs, like life itself.

~ May Sarton

Weekend Zen, December 17-18

Be content with what you have,

rejoice in the way things are. 

When you realize there is nothing lacking,

the whole world belongs to you.

~ Lao Tzu

Daily Zen - Friday, December 16

I am alone here in my own mind. 

There is no map and there is no road. 

It is one of a kind just as yours is.

~ Anne Sexton

Daily Zen - Thursday, December 15

You need not leave your room. Remain sitting

at your table and listen. You need not even listen,

simply wait. You need not even wait, just learn to 

become quiet, and still, and solitary. The world

will freely offer itself to you to be unmasked. 

~ Franz Kafka

Daily Zen - Wednesday, December 14

Step into the fire of self-discovery. 

This fire will not burn you,

it will only burn what you are not.

~ Mooji

Daily Zen - Tuesday, December 13

How beautiful the world was when one looked at it

without searching, just looked, simply and innocently.

~ Herman Hesse

Daily Zen - Monday, December 12

A bit of fragrance always clings

to the hand that gives roses.

~ Chinese Proverb

Weekend Zen, December 10-11

And if there is not any such thing as a long time,

nor the rest of your lives, nor from now on,

but there is only now, why then now is the thing 

to praise and I am very happy with it. 

~ Ernest Hemingway

Daily Zen - Friday, December 9

Happiness is a butterfly which, when pursued,

is always beyond our grasp, 

but which if you will sit down quietly,

may alight upon you.

~ Nathaniel Hawthorne

Daily Zen - Thursday, December 8

At that pond

the frog is growing old now ---

among fallen leaves.

~ Buson

Daily Zen - Wednesday, December 7

Courage is only the 

accumulation of small steps.

~ George Konrad

Daily Zen - Tuesday, December 6

This life of ours would not cause you sorrow

if you thought of it as like

the mountain cherry blossoms

which bloom and fade in a day.

~ Murasaki Shikibu

Daily Zen - Monday, December 5

The man who can drive himself further 

once the effort gets painful

is the man who will win. 

~ Roger Bannister

Weekend Zen, December 3-4

Be glad of life because it gives you the chance

to love and to work and to play 

and to look up at the stars.

~ Henry Van Dyke

Daily Zen - Friday, December 2

Groundless hope, like unconditional love,

is the only kind worth having.

~ John Perry Barlow

Daily Zen - Thursday, December 1

Abundance is, in large part,

an attitude.

~ Sue Patton Thoele

Daily Zen - Wednesday, November 30

We all derive from the same source. 

There is no mystery about the origin of things.

We are all part of creation, all kings, all poets, all musicians;

we have only to open up, 

only to discover what is already there.

~ Henry Miller

Daily Zen - Tuesday, November 29

The quieter you become

the more you can hear.

~ Ram Dass

Daily Zen - Monday, November 28

Be less curious about people

and more curious about ideas.

~ Marie Curie

Weekend Zen, November 26-27

I don't know anything with certainty,

but seeing the stars makes me dream.

~ Vincent Van Gogh

Daily Zen - Friday, November 25

Go deeper...

Past thoughts into silence.

Past silence into stillness.

Past stillness into the heart.

Let love consume all that is left of you.

~ Kabir

Daily Zen - Thursday, November 24 (Thanksgiving)

Maybe happiness is this: not feeling 

like you should be elsewhere,

doing something else,

being someone else.

~ Isaac Asimov

(Happy Thanksgiving)

Daily Zen - Wednesday, November 23

As your faith is strengthened you will find that 

there is no longer the need to have a sense of control, 

that things will flow as they will, and 

that you will flow with them, to your great delight and benefit.

~ Emmanuel Teney

Daily Zen - Tuesday, November 22

Courage is the discovery that you may not win,

and trying when you know you can lose.

~ Tom Krause

Daily Zen - Monday, November 21

Every man, when he gets quiet, 

when he becomes desperately honest with himself, 

is capable of uttering profound truths. 

~ Henry Miller

Weekend Zen, November 19-20

Find out who you are 

and do it on purpose.

~ Dolly Parton

Daily Zen - Friday, November 18

Gratitude is the fairest blossom

which springs from the soul.

~ Henry Ward Beecher

Daily Zen - Thursday, November 17

When you've hit bottom in your life and are suffering deeply,

that's the time to be strong. Don't give up; instead, look at yourself and say, "Enough is enough. I won't get caught 

in this pattern again. Today is the day it ends."

~ Dzogchen Ponloe Rinpoche

Daily Zen - Wednesday, November 16

No amount of anxiety makes any difference

to anything that is going to happen.

~ Alan Watts

Daily Zen - Tuesday, November 15

Even the wisest mind has something yet to learn.

~ George Santayana 

Daily Zen - Monday, November 14

Perhaps the most "spiritual" thing any of us can do

is simply to look through our own eyes, see with 

the eyes of wholeness, and act with integrity and kindness.

~ Jon Kabat-Zinn

Weekend Zen, November 12-13

Climb the mountains and get their good tidings.

Nature's peace will flow into you as sunshine flows

into trees. The winds will blow their own freshness

into you and the storms their energy, while cares

will drop off like autumn leaves.

~ John Muir

Daily Zen - Friday, November 11

Look at everything as though you were
seeing it either for the first or last time.

Then your time on earth will be filled with glory.

~ Bette Smith

Daily Zen - Thursday, November 10

Go confidently in the direction of your dreams.

Live the life you have imagined.

~ Henry David Thoreau

Daily Zen - Wednesday, November 9

There are years that ask questions

and years that answer. 

~ Zora Neale Hurston

Daily Zen - Tuesday, November 8

In the sweetness of friendship

let there be laughter and 

the sharing of pleasures.

~ Kahlil Gibran

Daily Zen - Monday, November 7

As great scientists have said, and as all children know,

it is above all by the imagination that we

achieve perception, and compassion, and hope.

~ Ursula Le Guin

Weekend Zen, November 5-6

Life is no brief candle to me.

It is a sort of splendid torch which I am

permitted to hold for the moment,

and I want to make it burn as brightly as possible

before handing it on to future generations.

~ George Bernard Shaw